Style Tips Fm. A Wedding Tradition

Here are 5 easy style tips taken from the Old English wedding tradition...

1) Something Old -

This can be something passed on from someone in your family or a friend, usually a piece of jewelry because that keeps through time better then clothing that often times need serious repair.

My mother has lots of cool jewelry that I've "borrowed" (with no intent on giving it back). Rings, earrings, bracelets, necklaces, and even scarves are good hand-me-downs!

2) Something New -

This something new is most likely a more current item that has recently become a fad (i.e. skinny jeans, tribal prints).

3) Something Borrowed -

Me and my sister borrow from each other ALL-THE-TIME! That's a perk about having a sister or girl friend that you live with; your wardrobe literally doubles! All though we both have different styles we sometimes need that one item that the other has to make the outfit we're wearing "perfect"!

4) Something Blue -

In this case, I'm just going to say, "Something Colorful". Don't be afraid of color! Metephorically, a world without color is bor-ring...and drab. Using color for the first time is something you've got to get used to doing. Take it one small step at a time. Start by wearing bold nail polish, then go for a bold scarf or accessory, next go for a shoe! The next thing you know is you'll be a color expert...

5) A piece of Sixpence -

Many may not know that there are actually five wedding traditions, being given a sixpence, which is a coin, being the fifth. I've learned to always carry at least twenty dollars cash on me. I've been in situations where I wasn't able to use my plastic and wish I had cash on me. So, when you get paid, withdrawl a twenty and keep it in your wallet for that "situation". HA!

Never Leave Home w/o It!

As a lady, there are a few things that you should never-ever leave home without...

~Never leave home w/o a smile on your face; especially with all that's going on in the world today. People need hope! People need peace!

~Never leave home w/o peace of mind; Again, there's so much going on. So many decisions that we make on a day-to-day bases. Let peace rule and reign in your heart and mind. Don't make choices without thought or out of anger, that's not a good look...

~Never leave home w/o the essence of humility; There is nothing more precious then a woman that knows that her true power comes from her servitude.

~Never leave home w/o a song; When things get a little sticky for you or someone you're near, pull out your "happy song" and do a little jig. It's always time for a party!!!

~Never leave home w/o a dollar or two in your coin purse; You're bound to run into someone who needs it...

~Never leave home w/o a vision; You've got to know where you're going and when you get there...WORK THAT THANG!

~Never leave home w/o a good book; Take five minutes out of your day (or more if you can) to sneak away into another world

~Never leave home w/o a bottle of water; Simply to keep hydrated!

~Finally, Never leave home w/o knowing who you are! You are beautifully created to be unique and rare. There is no one else that has your make up. When you were created, the pattern was archived. You are an original master piece. Every thing that is you is loved dearly and strategically placed by your Maker...You're Beautiful!

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Trousers...

Ok, I have to tell you. The first time I wore these pants I was a little nervous and I'm not sure why but boy-o-boy these things rock! Again paired with jean. Who's says you can't or shouldn't wear two different jeans. I layered my jean top with a jean vest. I think it's perf! If you don't care to heavily accessories that day, throw a fun scarf on your bag and jet.

pants - THRIFT FIND - ($2)
top - Walmart ($3)
vest - Walmart ($3)
bag - Caravels (2 for $10)
scarf - hand-me-down
necklace - Rue21 ($2)

Crazy Skirt

First of all, I love jeans. This jean shirt is one of my favorite pieces I own. This skirt is indeed a crazy lookin' something but that's why I like it AND it has pockets which make it that much more awesome.

top - Walmart ($3)
skirt - Goodwill ($7)
boots - Goodwill ($12)
purse - Goodwill ($4)

Lace and Ruffles

This is definitely a date night fit. You can actually throw a belt on with just about anything especially when you want to make a boxy cut more feminine or if you want to make a man pieces (button downs, blazers, boyfriend sweaters) more girlie.

dress - hand-me-down
belt - Papaya ($1)
stockings - Target ($3)
booties - Agacii ($12)

Jeans and Whatnot

One of my favorite items to wear are jeans. I have probably 20 if not more pairs of jeans. Dark, indigo, skinny, wide, trouser, cropped, shorts, skirts, tops, and vest...that's love!

jeans - Forever 21 ($2.99, That's right, $2.99)
top - Target (under $5)
vest - Walmart ($3)
hat - Target ($9.99)
necklace - Goodwill (.99, They had no idea what they had)
shoes - Goodwill ($9)

accessories

Wearing stuff like this is just fun. When putting two basic pieces together (especially if one of those pieces is as dramatic as this skirt)...do accessories! I used ribbon to tie around my waist as a belt and clipped a brooch for some kick. Use feathers, bows, jewels. Just have fun!

black tank - Target ($6)
lemon colored chiffon skirt - THRIFT FIND - Savors ($8)
ribbon - Walmart ($1 and change)
brooch - hand-me-down

*complete this outfit with some ballerina slippers

F.T.F

F.T.F stands for "First Things First". Before establishing your own style here's what you've got to know...

F.T.F - Forget about trends! It's cool to pick up things from the latest fades but don't thread for thread feel the need to follow them. If you want you're own style, take bits and pieces of things you find in the mag and on your fav celebs and make them apart of your refined style.

F.T.F - Always, and I mean always, be true to you! If you like polo shirts, make it your staple. If you like bold lips or eyes, make it a trademark. Embrace those corky attributes of what makes you, you. I love "work shirts" (collared button downs), V-necks, jeans, and boots! I make sure every time I step out that I have at least one (if not all) of these items on. Pair your favorite item with something something old, something new, and always with a splash of color or pattern.

F.T.F - Throw in bright colors! Don't be afraid to wear lemon yellow or tangerine orange. Colors will definitely brighten your mood and give you an energy throughout your day. GO FOR IT!

F.T.F - Use patterns! If it's your bag, your shoes, your pants, or your top, be sure to use a pattern or two. Patterns break up solid colors and just makes things fun! Florals, Strips, Polka Dots...whatev's

F.T.F - Throw on the red lip! You know, I used to be frightened of the red lip but the more confident I become, the more I like it. It doesn't matter what color you are, you can throw on the red lip. Casual or fun night out with the gal pals, why not!

F.T.F. - Create "The Look". The most important thing is to always take with you is your smile. More than wanting to be stylish, never leave the house without your laughter and your fun.